The Real Deal

Good afternoon,

I've met a lot of disingenuous people. In fact, you and I deal with them every day no matter what we do. But when this happens in ministry, it's really discouraging to think that people who represent the body of Christ could act or behave in such a way that is contrary to Jesus.

But rather than be dragged down by those who mess it up, let me focus on those who do it right. Over four years ago, I met a man in ministry who has now become a best friend, a mentor, a right-hand man, and a prayer partner - all because he chose to be genuine, and do it the right way. To love people like Jesus called us to, that is the true call.

Pastor Garry Mitchell was preaching a revival in Smiths Grove, KY. I'll never forget going by that afternoon with my friend Pastor Jimmie to Garry's home - the infamous "Barndominium" in Oakland, KY. There he was, unassuming, sitting barefooted in the swing reading his Bible. We had a short conversation and prayed and then I visited Jimmie's church that night for an awesome service. The power of the Holy Spirit to minister to my needs that night was miraculous and remarkable, and it began a great friendship.

Over the past five years, I have spoken to, studied with, argued with, prayed with, brainstormed, aggravated, bounced ideas off, picked apart, been accountable and completely revolutionized the way I think about ministry with this man for about five days a week. As a minister, you drive a lot, so when he was driving his truck and I was on the way to the hospital, it was an easy thing to pick up the phone.

And THANK GOD FOR SHARED MINUTES or I would have had to take out a second mortgage with AT&T.

But here's what's amazing. He always had time. The guy has like 472 pastors in his phone directory (or so it seems). And he never once cared any more about one or the other to invest in their ministry. Like my greatest college professor, he challenged me to think, to act and not react, to love people and to revolutionize the way I interact with those who need to know Jesus. He's genuine.

I often would ask myself when I first met him...why does he care that much about me and the ministry that God has for me? There has to be a catch. This dude has to have a hitch. Something, surely, is going to change later. But it didn't. He's transparent, he's real and let me tell you, far from perfect and not afraid to admit it.

So for all the pastors out there, let me offer you a challenge. Never under any circumstances be disingenuous to those people who lean upon you for spiritual guidance, friendship, trust and ministry. There's way too much competition in our field and not near enough compassion, care and cooperation. Be REAL to people and don't underestimate how you represent Jesus to your peers.

Why did I write this today? Because now I'm on the other side of the fence. Pastor Garry recently had open heart surgery and is recovering and we're praying by the mighty hand of God, he will be all better soon. I've been given the opportunity to speak to his small group for the past three weeks on Monday night and sit in his chair. What a humbling experience. And it's amazing to watch all these people whom he has invested in, give their full attention, respect and trust to me as we lead the group and pray together.

Why? Because he taught them that respect for God's Word and God's man is of the utmost importance. And however you should treat him, is exactly the way you should treat everyone else.

It's really simple. Just kind of act like Jesus. You'll be amazed how well it works and people respond to it.

Get well soon, Reverend. We're praying for you!

Pastor K

P.S. Check out his own blog at http://www.garrymitchellministries.com/